From past few days this question was lingering in mind
Love really JUST-HAPPENS or WE-MAKE-IT-HAPPEN?
Going by our bollywood movies which heavily sells the former idea that somewhere someone spl is made for u and one fine day u happen to meet.. and from that moment ur love at first sight takes off (sounds interesting)
well, it can happen perhaps @ one point of time all of us might have felt that ahhaa moment in our life.
Infact few of us went ahead with that relationship and very few of us converted in to life-time-commitment but many of them went in vain.
This is where MSK-VANI poses the question, if he has found his love-of-life or soulmate then why should it go in vain?
And this is where we "WE-MAKE-IT-HAPPEN" comes into picture.
The JUST-HAPPENS can give u an exciting start and all those butterfly-in-stomach feelings and we make the bond instantly with the person but....... is it enough to hold on to a relationship? mind u..we human are fickle minded so does our Rships.
As they say talent can only fetch u rewards till ur school days or till under-19 events, if u really want to be a pro or to be truly successful then we should look upto WE-MAKE-IT-HAPPEN attitude... with our commitment n dedication we need to nurture our talent CONSISTENTLY then only it can make difference in our lives else you will remain school-days-champ for rest of ur life.
Applying the same funda to love I guess I found my answer ..... u just cant relay on JUST-HAPPENs sort of love, WE-MAKE-IT-HAPPEN should be in place to make it a successful love.
Well I wont think twice to go step forward and utter: @times WE-MAKE-IT-HAPPEN sort of love alone is strong enough to withstand d storm, where as JUST-HAPPENs sort of love cant do it alone and ......storms r obvious in any long term Rshpis...mind it!!
Happy Love making :)
MSK
Nice one...but we can make it happen only when we find and realize love for our someone special..
ReplyDeleteSomeone somewhere is made for us, is just a belief that you will get the right person, for whom you would not have to take extra efforts to MAKE IT HAPPEN..it will JUST HAPPEN...the force of belonging will keep you both together in all undue circumstances..
Further, one plant in your garden may grow on its own, or may be you planted it..in both cases if you want it to grow you will have to water it nah...if you don't you will loose it..
Good one.I strongly agree in ur concept of making it happen.but one need to take care how much effort one put to make it happen n should not push things on other.but for sure its a worth a try anytime....
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